What is life? What is its purpose? Who am I? Do I belong here? These questions seem so redundant now. It’s like they’ve outgrown their existence and yet at the end of the day when we come back to the comforting arms of a bed we are compelled to kneel in helplessness before them. I’ve known people who have beaten themselves senseless while trying to answer these questions but for me they hold no relevance. Going by the notion that each one’s perception is different and each one lives life according to what they’ve learned, then I already have the answers I need. Even if these answers are merely illusions, it does not matter.
So what exactly is life? A human’s life is nothing more than an uneven mix of reality and illusion. We all live in illusions and give meaning to things in our own way. One person’s reality is another person’s illusion. We keep running helter-skelter, clinging to our lives and blatantly judging without knowing anything at all. We have notions of ourselves in our heads but that is not how we are perceived by those around us. We create personas and act them out every day. Either we live in an illusion in our heads or we create one and show that to the people around us. Then we die a slow and confused death without knowing ourselves or those around us. Reality on the other hand is completely different. It is so full of pain, misery, disappointments and emptiness that we create illusions to counter it. This gives rise to contradictions but contradictions are a part of our system. There is no sole truth and there is no sole lie. Everything is interconnected. When you choose to love, you run the risk of hatred. When you say you are just, you deem everything else as unjust. When you say you are truthful, you deem others as liars. The concept of winners is what created losers. We’re the only species foolish enough to wage wars in order to create peace. We’re still taking lives and then we have the audacity to hide behind a veil and call ourselves moral. We’re still sacrificing other people in order to build what we think will bring peace. Conflict is in our nature as humans. As a whole, there will always be contradictions to life. When you choose a side and pick qualities that suit you, you deny everything else that constitutes you. You deny the dark, mangled desires and conceal them with a smile and make up. Just because you don’t show it or deny it that doesn’t mean it isn’t a part of you. Just remember that life isn’t absolute. If anything, it is fickle.
Life may not have any meaning at all. To give it meaning, we create purpose. These purposes are personal but the purpose of life itself is ambiguous. No one knows what life’s purpose is. So we give it our own meaning and see it through till the bitter end. What’s the point of purpose? What’s the point of goals? Even if life had a purpose, it would eventually end in death. The only certainty life offers you is death. Even discussing the purpose of life is rather futile as we develop our own meanings and our own conclusions. Going with this notion, life maybe nothing. Even we, as individuals, at our core, are nothing.
Ever asked yourself the question, “who am I?” It’s difficult to answer and those who are quick to reply haven’t really contemplated the depths of it. Every tiny fabric of our being, our own core, all our thoughts, assumptions and beliefs if broken down through rigorous questioning will all have the same answer – Nothing! But we never accept ‘nothing’ because we perceive it as an end and not a beginning. Remember that when you are nothing, you are free to be anything.
The way we perceive life, the way we understand and live it is what creates discord because we live with our own notions of how it ought to be. There can never be complete understanding between individuals. Everyone has their differences. As long as you live, you will always be connected to these nexuses of contradictions, to people, to their baggage, to their justifications and their governance. There is no absolute freedom. There are no liberties. You can’t always live life on your own terms. It is what creates anxieties and suffering. The only way to be truly free is to sever these nexuses and accept death as redemption.