Hi,
It’s been going on for a while now, but somehow my better judgment prevented me from writing this or at least from expressing my views about it. We live in a world where we’re willing to fight, hold processions, protest and even go through numerous trials in court for what we believe are our rights. What are rights? Who said we did or didn’t have them? Do I have a right to love? Do I need permission from the state to love or hurt someone? Do rights even matter after I am dead?
I never cared about homosexuality or heterosexuality or bisexuality or the whole gender preference thing as a whole for that matter. It just wasn’t that big a deal to me. Why? Because I am too focused and too busy with myself, my own growth and my goals to worry about men kissing or butt-fucking each other. Gay marriage has been legalized… let me repeat – “legalized” in the US… now how does that affect me and why is it such a big deal world over? Don’t people have something better to do? Don’t they have kids to raise, don’t they have money to make, don’t they have jobs, ambition or goals they need to fulfill? Why waste time worrying about what your neighbor does when you can use that time for something more productive?
There are tons of homeless people out there, people – huge masses of people consisting of men, women and children as a whole who die out of starvation, disease and improper treatment while those in the developed and developing countries waste time fighting for what they think are their rights! Is this some kind of sick joke? Pride, parade, love wins – where? How? Where’s this so called love when you see a homeless person begging for food and shelter? Where are these parades when a woman is mercilessly raped in a dark alley? Where is this so called pride when you cheat on your spouse? Where is the rest of the shit you claim to stand for when you actually have to uphold it?
Imagine if we pulled the flesh from our bones, would our color, race or ethnicity really matter? If we pulled out our genitals would gender be much of an issue? The things we segregate ourselves on are the barriers we’ve created ourselves. We don’t need rights or court orders; we need acceptance, from each other. Under this skin, under those muscles, behind those genitals, we’re all the same. The only divisions we see are the ones we seek out! Rather than wasting time and energy on something so meaningless, you’d be better off educating yourself, traveling or doing what you love. Focus on yourself. Let people do what they want to do as long as it doesn’t affect you, it shouldn’t bother you! If two men who are complete strangers to you kiss each other, just let them. You don’t know them and they don’t know you. It’s none of your business.
On a closing note, my standpoint on this issue (that is if it really is an issue) remains the same – I don’t care… never have and never will. While you’re out there pointing fingers, blaming, condemning, condoning, complaining, celebrating, commenting, derogating, demeaning, dividing, segregating or simply minding other people’s business, I am out there working, doing what I love, shaping my dreams and building myself!
With Love,
A Human.